Archive for the ‘Persistence’ Category

It’s time for the adults to be quiet

Tuesday, February 27th, 2018

A child can teach an adult three things… To be happy for no reason. To always be busy with something. And to know how to demand with all his might that which he desires. Paulo Coelho

You remember the saying, ‘the adults are talking’ well perhaps it’s time to listen to the children.

The eloquence and empathy demonstrated by the Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School students is truly encouraging.

Perhaps these children can succeed where adults’ efforts have not been realized.

We say, after (fill in a tragedy) if there has not been change, now, then when?

The adults mobilize, march and move on without impacting change. The victims’ families don’t get the luxury of moving on. Instead they get our short-term thoughts and prayers.

The children will not stop until there is change; they are relentless.

Let’s playback a scenario we can all relate to:

Scene – child and adult in a toy store

Child:       Can I have this?

Adult:      No, I don’t have any money.

Child:       You don’t need money, you have credit cards.

Adult:      I don’t have any money on my credit card for toys.

Child:       Sure you do.  You just bought shoes.

Adult:      I needed shoes.

Child:       I need this toy.

Adult:      You have toys.

Child:       You have shoes.

Adult:      Yes, but.

Conversation continues for 10 minutes more…..End scene with parent and child at checkout with a toy.

Like I said, they are relentless.  I have hope – the kids got this, and they won’t give up until they get what they want.

 

Have a great week, and have hope.

Sincerely,

Tina Nocera, Founder

Parental Wisdom®

 

Constraints help us be more creative

Sunday, February 23rd, 2014

Next week, parents and teachers join forces to celebrate Read Across America Day, annually held on March 2. This nationwide observance coincides with the birthday of Dr Seuss, who is known for writing children’s books.

Teachers dress up and plan activities demonstrating the fun of reading.  Though geared to students, there is a lesson we can all learn from Dr. Seuss.

In 1960 his publisher at Random House, Bennett Cerf, made a wager with Theodor S. Geisel (aka Dr. Seuss) that he could write an intelligent, entertaining children’s book only using 50 words.

Geisel won the bet and $50; one dollar for each word. Despite the limitation of words, over 200 million copies of Green Eggs and Ham have been sold.

Kids of all ages can learn how constraints help us be more creative.

Constraints are often used as an excuse for not moving forward.  Instead, let’s embrace them and come up with creative solutions.  Don’t buy your child a creativity kit, which is an oxymoron, but rather give them things you have around the house and ask them to create something.  You might be surprised at the result. Talk about how limitations helped the ground crew bring home the astronauts from Apollo 13.

In business, we look for reasons that stand in the way of us being innovative.  We don’t have the time or money, or we haven’t vetted out ideas properly, or don’t have the right talent. I’ve written this before, but if we wait till all the lights are green before we leave for work, we will never begin.

As our children’s greatest role model, what is it that you would love to do?  Get started despite the constraints, and your children will follow your lead.

You may even want to fry up Green Eggs and Ham!

Have a great week!

Tina Nocera, Founder

Parental Wisdom®

 

Your Home: A Sanctuary That Needs TLC (Tender Loving Care)

Saturday, February 21st, 2009

Our homes are more than just addresses on a map; they’re sanctuaries where we unwind, recharge, and build memories. But just like our bodies, our houses need constant care to function at their best. In today’s world, with an emphasis on well-being, sustainability, and even changing economic realities, prioritizing home improvement is no longer a “maybe,” it’s a must.

Here’s why keeping your house in top shape and embracing smart improvements should be a top priority:

1. A Healthy Haven for You and Your Loved Ones:

Ignoring minor issues can snowball into major health hazards. Leaky pipes can lead to mold growth, triggering respiratory problems and allergies. Faulty electrical wiring can spark fires, while structural damage can compromise the integrity of your home. Addressing these issues promptly ensures a safe and healthy environment for everyone living there.

2. Investing in Your Future:

Think of regular maintenance as preventative medicine for your house. Fixing minor problems now prevents them from becoming expensive repairs later. A well-maintained home also retains its value better, making it a wise financial decision in the long run.

3. Saving Money and the Planet:

Upgrading windows, doors, and insulation can significantly improve your home’s energy efficiency. This translates to substantial savings on your utility bills, especially with today’s fluctuating energy costs. Additionally, a more energy-efficient home reduces your environmental impact, making it a win-win for your wallet and the planet.

4. From Function to Flourishing:

Let’s not forget the sheer joy of living in a comfortable and inviting space. Investing in improvements that enhance your day-to-day life, like creating a dedicated home office nook or increasing storage for a clutter-free environment, can significantly boost your well-being. A well-designed and organized home can minimize stress and allow you to truly unwind after a long day.

5. Adapting to the Changing Landscape:

The way we live in our homes is constantly evolving. Working remotely has become increasingly common, and creating dedicated workspaces within our homes is a necessity. Smart home technology features can enhance security, control your environment, and even optimize energy usage.

Making Smart Choices for Your Home

With ever-changing economic realities, it’s important to prioritize projects that offer a strong return on investment (ROI). Focus on repairs that address major structural issues or safety concerns first, you can get the best contractors like www.ApdrRestoration.com for the most important repairs. Then, consider improvements that can enhance energy efficiency or create a more functional living space. Many government initiatives and rebates might also be available to help offset the cost of home improvement projects, so be sure to do your research.

Your home is an extension of yourself, a reflection of your lifestyle and aspirations. By investing in its maintenance and improvement, you’re creating a healthy, safe, and comfortable haven that will enrich your life for years to come. So, embrace the journey of transforming your house into a true home, whether you tackle projects yourself or call in the experts. Remember, a little TLC goes a long way!

Encouraging Mistakes

Tuesday, May 29th, 2007

Is it my imagination or are children today afraid of making mistakes? That is so disappointing because making mistakes is the best way to learn. Us older folks know that life isn’t about perfection, but persistence.

Sarah Blakely is the young woman who invented Spanks, which are now a household word and enjoy sales in the 100 million dollar range. For those of you not familiar with Spanks it is the modern equivalent of the girdle and a lot more effective.

In Sarah’s story about how she got to be successful, she credits her father who encouraged her to make mistakes. She would come home from school and say, “Dad, I tried out for Student Council and I lost.” He would give her a high five for trying, not winning.

His response encouraged her to continue trying at lots of things. So when she kept hearing no in response to her revolutionary new design – she kept trying.

It’s simple – reward the effort, not the outcome and eventually the outcome will be the reward.

Let’s teach our kids that you don’t drown by falling in water, you drown by staying there.