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Growing our future heroes

Sunday, August 26th, 2018

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With the passing of John McCain, we have lost the best example of service and courage.  He served the United States of America faithfully for sixty years.

In reading the memorials, there was a recurring theme that I felt would be best represented in a word cloud.

In John McCain’s own words…

“It is your character, and your character alone, that will make your life happy or unhappy.”  ― John McCainCharacter Is Destiny: Inspiring Stories Every Young Person Should Know and Every Adult Should Remember

“We are taught to understand, correctly, that courage is not the absence of fear, but the capacity for action despite our fears.”
― John McCain

“Nothing in life is more liberating than to fight for a cause larger than yourself, something that encompasses you but is not defined by your existence alone.”
― John McCainFaith of My Fathers: A Family Memoir

When asked what he hoped people would say about him when he’s gone, John McCain simply said, he “hoped they would say he served his country…and he served it honorably”.

For us, three questions:

  1. Are we teaching our children values that matter?
  2. Are we giving our children so much, that they don’t think of service to others?
  3. Are we growing our future heroes; are we growing the next John McCain?

Senator McCain, you have served your country very well, and we thank you for your service. Senator McCain as well as many Americans dedicated body and soul to their country, and you who feel you are in the hole without being able to achieve something successful, not only that, you also have bad credit, your only hope is a loan for bad credit, get it and with the money make a better country.

Tina Nocera, Founder

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It’s time for the adults to be quiet

Tuesday, February 27th, 2018

A child can teach an adult three things… To be happy for no reason. To always be busy with something. And to know how to demand with all his might that which he desires. Paulo Coelho

You remember the saying, ‘the adults are talking’ well perhaps it’s time to listen to the children.

The eloquence and empathy demonstrated by the Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School students is truly encouraging.

Perhaps these children can succeed where adults’ efforts have not been realized.

We say, after (fill in a tragedy) if there has not been change, now, then when?

The adults mobilize, march and move on without impacting change. The victims’ families don’t get the luxury of moving on. Instead they get our short-term thoughts and prayers.

The children will not stop until there is change; they are relentless.

Let’s playback a scenario we can all relate to:

Scene – child and adult in a toy store

Child:       Can I have this?

Adult:      No, I don’t have any money.

Child:       You don’t need money, you have credit cards.

Adult:      I don’t have any money on my credit card for toys.

Child:       Sure you do.  You just bought shoes.

Adult:      I needed shoes.

Child:       I need this toy.

Adult:      You have toys.

Child:       You have shoes.

Adult:      Yes, but.

Conversation continues for 10 minutes more…..End scene with parent and child at checkout with a toy.

Like I said, they are relentless.  I have hope – the kids got this, and they won’t give up until they get what they want.

 

Have a great week, and have hope.

Sincerely,

Tina Nocera, Founder

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What legacy will you leave behind?

Tuesday, August 29th, 2017

Carry out a random act of kindness with no expectation of reward, safe in the knowledge that one day someone might do the same for you. – Princess Diana

Parents wonder if our children hear our words, learn the lessons we try to share or see the actions we model. Yet sometimes we see a glimmer of hope as they perform a random act of kindness for a classmate or ask you to help a stranger.

At those times you secretly smile and think, ‘ah yes! It is working.’

Well if you ever have doubt, I suggest you look at Prince William and Prince Harry 20 years after their mother, Princess Diana’s death. Even though they were still relatively young when she died, they witnessed how she genuinely cared for those less fortunate and take up their own causes today.

Our children shouldn’t believe they are the center of the universe. It’s likely they are fortunate and should be encouraged to help others. There’s a commercial that really bothers me where a little girl asks viewers if she is cute and responds herself saying, “I think I am.” But then goes on to say that mom and dad can’t play with her because they are busy cleaning. Is it just me or does anyone else think that the cute little girl can help mom and dad? She gets to learn what is like to do a little housework and help mom and dad so everybody can play!

If we are concerned about the polarization of views in this country, a unifying view could be that kindness always makes things better. Anyone disagree with that?

Start kids thinking early about helping others. One way is to sponsor a child through Children Incorporated. Their mission is to provide resources to children in need in the United States and abroad. They passionately believe that children everywhere deserve education, hope and opportunity. Our kids may need to know every child doesn’t start out with the same advantages.

Like Princess Diana, our legacy is that we should leave the world a better place for our children. It may be a small start, but much like Saturday chores, why not make them active participants?

Have a great week!

 

Tina Nocera, Founder

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When you realize you are friends with your children

Sunday, August 20th, 2017
Tina and Noelle

Tina and Noelle

Well before the Gilmore Girls made it popular to be friends with your daughter, Noelle and I had a relationship based on mutual love, respect, trust and laughter.

Now I’m realizing how much I’m learning from her. I don’t worry about keeping up with the digital age because she recommends websites, blogs and podcasts I should subscribe to, and provides valuable insight such as the groundbreaking decision that Allure magazine is no longer using the term anti-aging.

We do things that girlfriends do like sharing clothes and going to our favorite mall we affectionately refer to as our ‘mother ship’, even at a time where malls are becoming passé. We do it for the experience we’ve always enjoyed, which begins with shopping and ends with lunch because well, doesn’t that order makes sense?

She explains why the Khardasians are marketing geniuses because everything they touch turns to sold, and why she is moving from Snapchat to Instagram stories because she is always just ahead of the curve (remember kitten heels Noelle?)

She tells me what is cool, but at the same time suggests I not use that word.   We discuss politics on a daily basis, because there is always something to talk about, and there is a concern about the future, and the children she will have one day, and what we can do to make a difference.

We have our many traditions, including our favorite movies, Hokus Pokus for Halloween, Love Actually for Christmas and The Ten Commandments, reciting each line as we prepare our Easter raviolis. And the tradition of wishing you happy birthday at the exact moment you were born, August 21st 5:09am even if you took a day off!

Together, we may not be changing the world, or are we?  If everyone spent time building quality relationships with family and friends, that may be just the spark needed to start peace with others.

Even though parenting experts suggest not being friends with your children – I disagree. My daughter Noelle has made my life better, and who wouldn’t want a friend like that?

Happy birthday my sweetie – I love you with all my heart, and remember, I will always love you more.

Have a great week!

Tina Nocera, Founder

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How to Spot a Reputable Online Casino: Red Flags to Watch Out For

Sunday, January 29th, 2017

The popularity of online gambling has skyrocketed in recent years, with thousands of platforms offering a variety of games, bonuses, and betting options. However, not all online casinos are created equal, and some may pose risks to players through unfair practices or even outright scams. To ensure a safe and enjoyable gambling experience, it’s crucial to know how to spot a reputable online casino and avoid those with red flags. This guide will offer practical advice on identifying trustworthy platforms, understanding the importance of licenses and certifications, and recognizing warning signs.
1. Check for a Valid License and Regulation

The most important factor in determining whether an online casino is reputable is its licensing and regulation. Reputable casinos are licensed by recognized regulatory authorities, ensuring that they meet strict standards for fairness, security, and player protection. Here’s how to verify a casino’s licensing:

Look for Licensing Information: Reputable online casinos will display their licensing information prominently, usually at the bottom of the homepage. Common licensing bodies include:
Malta Gaming Authority (MGA)
UK Gambling Commission (UKGC)
Curacao eGaming
Gibraltar Gambling Commissioner
Kahnawake Gaming Commission

Verify the License: Licensing information should include the license number and issuing body. Visit the regulator’s website and use the license number to verify that the casino is indeed registered and in good standing. Avoid any casino that fails to provide this information or claims to operate without a license.

2. Look for Third-Party Certifications

In addition to a valid license, reputable online casinos often seek certifications from independent third-party organizations that audit and test their games for fairness. These certifications provide an extra layer of assurance for players. Key certifying bodies include:

eCOGRA (eCommerce Online Gaming Regulation and Assurance): This independent agency tests games for fairness, ensuring that they are not rigged and that the outcomes are random. Look for the eCOGRA seal of approval on the casino’s website.

iTech Labs: This organization conducts rigorous testing on gaming software to ensure fairness and reliability.

TST (Technical Systems Testing): Another independent testing firm that checks the randomness and integrity of casino games.

Casinos that proudly display certifications from these organizations demonstrate transparency and commitment to fair play.
3. Examine the Casino’s Security Features

Security should be a top priority for any online casino. A reputable platform will have robust security measures in place to protect players’ personal and financial information. Here’s how to assess a casino’s security features:

SSL Encryption: Ensure that the casino uses Secure Socket Layer (SSL) encryption to protect your data. This technology encrypts all information transmitted between your device and the casino’s servers, safeguarding sensitive data such as credit card numbers and login credentials. Look for a padlock symbol in the URL bar and ensure the website starts with “https” rather than “http.”

Responsible Gambling Tools: Reputable casinos take responsible gambling seriously and offer tools to help players manage their spending. Look for features like deposit limits, time limits, and self-exclusion options. These tools indicate that the casino prioritizes player safety and well-being.

4. Read Reviews and Player Feedback

One of the best ways to gauge the reliability of an online casino is by checking player reviews and feedback. While no casino will have a perfect reputation, a consistent pattern of complaints or negative reviews is a red flag. Here’s how to assess a casino’s reputation:

Independent Review Sites: Visit reputable review sites that specialize in online casinos. These sites often provide in-depth analyses, including pros and cons, payout times, and overall player satisfaction.

Player Forums: Online gambling forums can be a valuable resource for gathering honest opinions from real players. Pay attention to recurring complaints about issues like delayed payouts, unresponsive customer service, or unfair terms and conditions.

Social Media Presence: Check the casino’s social media pages for player comments and reviews. Casinos with active, responsive social media accounts tend to care about their customer base.

5. Assess the Game Selection and Software Providers

The quality of a casino’s game selection and the reputation of its software providers are also strong indicators of trustworthiness. Reputable casinos partner with well-known software developers, ensuring that their games are fair and reliable. Watch out for the following:

Top Software Providers: Look for games powered by industry-leading providers such as Microgaming, NetEnt, Playtech, Evolution Gaming, and Betsoft. These companies are renowned for producing high-quality, fair games, and their partnerships with casinos are a sign of reliability.

Game Variety: A reputable casino will offer a wide variety of games, including slots, table games, and live dealer options. If the game library is limited or includes unknown or poorly rated providers, this could be a sign of a subpar platform.

6. Examine the Terms and Conditions

Always read a casino’s terms and conditions (T&Cs) before signing up, especially when it comes to bonuses and withdrawals. Reputable casinos will provide clear, fair T&Cs, while untrustworthy sites may include hidden clauses designed to trap players. Watch for these red flags:

Unreasonable Wagering Requirements: Be cautious of casinos that impose excessively high wagering requirements on bonuses. For example, if you must wager your bonus 50 times before withdrawing any winnings, it could indicate unfair practices.

Restricted Withdrawal Limits: Some rogue casinos impose overly restrictive withdrawal limits or take an unreasonably long time to process withdrawals. Always check how long it takes to receive your winnings and whether there are any withdrawal caps.

Bonus Clauses: Ensure that the terms of any bonuses or promotions are transparent and fair. Avoid casinos that bury important information in fine print or require you to jump through too many hoops to claim your bonus.

7. Customer Support Availability

Customer support is a vital component of a reputable online casino. Trustworthy platforms will offer multiple channels for players to reach support, including live chat, email, and phone support. Consider the following:

24/7 Availability: Reputable casinos typically offer round-the-clock support to ensure that players can get assistance whenever they need it.

Responsive and Helpful Support: Test the customer service by asking a few questions before you sign up. A good casino will have knowledgeable, courteous staff who respond quickly and effectively.

8. Red Flags to Avoid

Finally, here are some clear red flags that signal an online casino might be a scam:

Lack of Licensing Information: If a casino doesn’t display its licensing credentials or fails to provide verifiable licensing information, avoid it.

Poor Website Design or Functionality: A low-quality website, filled with broken links or outdated graphics, may indicate that the casino is not serious about providing a quality service.

Unrealistic Bonus Offers: If a bonus seems too good to be true—such as offering an excessively large bonus with minimal or no wagering requirements—it’s likely a trap.

Negative Reputation: A consistent pattern of complaints from players about issues like delayed payouts or closed accounts is a strong indicator that a casino is untrustworthy.

Conclusion

Spotting a reputable online casino like joker123 apk requires due diligence, but following these steps can help protect you from scams and ensure you have a safe, enjoyable experience. By verifying licenses, checking for third-party certifications, reviewing player feedback, and examining security measures, you can identify trustworthy platforms and enjoy your time gambling online with peace of mind. Always prioritize your safety, and when in doubt, choose casinos that prioritize transparency, fairness, and player protection.

Making a difference – Raising a Child You Want to Meet at Age 25

Sunday, August 9th, 2015

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One child, one teacher, one book and one pen can change the world. Education is the only solution. Education first.

Malala Yousafzai to the UN Youth Assembly 2012.

According to the 2015 Child Stats government data, there are presently 49.7 million children ages 6 to 17 living in the U.S.

What would happen if all those children began to recognize problems and offer solutions? They would be successful because children don’t stop to think of all the reasons why something might not work!

Instead of making excuses, they would take action, which usually starts in their own community.  By experiencing success, they gain courage, confidence and know how needed to build a network. These children aren’t special; in fact they are regular kids with one thing that gives them (dare I say it) a superpower. It’s conviction.

How your children are raised and educated affects their discipline in the future. It’s important to take them to an after hours daycare Brisbane if you and your husband need to do something at night instead of letting them alone at home. They can learn more on a child care and he will develop social skills.

As you read stories about these children, you will be inspired. When your own child comes to you with the desire to tackle a problem, don’t dismiss them; encourage them.  After all, where do you think the next generation of leaders will come from?

Here is one simple idea to get started…most families are getting ready for back to school which means a shiny new book bag filled with new school supplies. There are nearly half a million children in Foster Care that don’t experience that annual family tradition and very likely aren’t prepared on the first day of school, some are lucky to go through a foster care licensing process.

With your child search online for local organizations that welcome donations and give a foster child a reason to smile on the first day of school.

Here are more inspiring stories:

8 Amazing Kids Who Make a Difference

10 Kids Who Changed the World

What can you do today?

Begin a discussion with your child about concerns:

In the community

  • Land use
  • Vacant lots, abandoned buildings
  • Beautification projects
  • Animals and wildlife
  • Libraries
  • Literacy
  • A community garden
  • Parks and recreation
  • Sports and athletics

Social Concerns

  • Families
  • Child care
  • The Elderly
  • Homelessness
  • Nutrition and health
  • Poverty
  • Diversity

The Environment

  • Pollution
  • Garbage and recycling

Public Safety

  • Disaster preparedness
  • Crime
  • Safety and accidents

All this week, please look for resources and ideas on Parental Wisdom’s Facebook page, Twitter Feed and Instagram for resource links and inspiration.

It is more important that your children are kind rather than happy.

See you next week!

Tina Nocera, Founder

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