A trophy carries dust. Memories last forever.
Mary Lou Retton
Home Field Advantage: Sports Talk
Why do your children play sports? Do they want to? Do you want them to? Are they enjoying themselves?
When children sign up for sports, most parents want them to have fun, exercise, learn skills and team play…all while remaining safe and healthy.
How do you know your child is having a positive experience? What is your role as a parent?
Here are some guidelines to consider:
- Show them your love and support, win or lose.
- Develop healthy attitudes toward competition; discuss the value of effort, persistence and courage.
- Encourage them to do their best.
- Explaining while winning is an admirable goal, winning at all costs is not.
- Discuss the value of rules and discipline.
Before the Game: Setting Goals
Support your children’s interests by getting to know their coaches, and making sure the coaches (and yes, you too parents) demonstrate behaviors that reflect desired attitudes and ethics.
Game Day: Fan or Foe?
Now that you know the value of being a team player both on and off the field, it’s important to understand your fan “type:”
The Cheerleader: You cheer for your child and her team, or even for a good play on the opposing team.
The Critic: Your comments involve shouting corrections or comments at your child, his teammates, and coaches or referees.
The Observer: You quietly watch your child’s sporting event, smiling, nodding, and giving a “thumb’s up” when you see something positive.
The Ghost: You are not at most of the games, and if you are there, you are not present, but spending time on your phone and with your back to the game.
Ask your child to complete this sentence. I enjoy when you come to my games because…
If you are one of those amazing sports families, you may want to consider planning a trip to various sports hall of fames, such as:
Hockey Hall of Fame – Toronto, Ontario
Basketball Hall of Fame – Springfield, Massachusetts
Baseball Hall of Fame – Cooperstown, NY
Football Hall of Fame – Canton, OH
Tennis Hall of Fame – Newport, RI
Soccer Hall of Fame – Oneonta, NY
Volleyball Hall of Fame – Holyoke, MA
Golf Hall of Fame – St. Augustine, FL
Softball Hall of Fame – Oklahoma City, OK
Ice Skating – Denver, CO
Ski and Snowboard Hall of Fame – Ishpeming, MI
Lacrosse Hall of Fame – Baltimore, MD
Have a great week!
Tina Nocera, Founder